Right now trying to call up those friends i am reaching out to for Easter. Got a rude shock from a friend. Haven't felt that for a long time , really felt like lashing back at the person. Knowing how she is suffering from stress, i was trying to see if everything is alright. Guess she isn't really concern about what others are thinking but herself.
Saying this make me feel convicted too. In this world, rules that govern how things work never change. Something you might hear people complain how things are bad, how they are mistreated, how they are not good enough. On the contrary, you never hear that from certain people. They don't complain about how people "mistreat" them, they seldom if never talk about how the world is unfair.
So what separate the 2 groups? The word is simply A.T.T.I.T.U.D.E.
Let's face it. According to statistic, murphy's law , buddha law, taoist chant, the bible, whatever teaching that is sensible, EVERYONE face difficulties and unhappy time. It is your attitude that really makes you stand out and how far you can go.
I alway remind myself not wallow in self pity nor will i go to the other extreme of being totally self centred and care about myself.The world will not stop spinning just because you are feeling sad , self pity does not change much of anything. Simply because the world does not spin around you.
How i wish to shake the person and ask her to wake up her idea. Not because i want to vent my anger, but what she is like today is because of her attitude. Haiz.
How can i help myself to help them to lead a happier and more fruitful life?
From the bottom of my heart, i do hope there are people out there trying to correct me in the areas that I'm lacking. I do not want to live in self denial or ignorance.
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