as i grow older, i began to realise the difficulty of keeping a marriage going...it is not going to be one person effort but that of both...sometimes when one fall, the other needs to help the partner up...when they are going through storm, it has to be the trust that brings them thru it all...even when they are in love, it still takes a lot of effort to keep the whole thing going...
on a personal level, i view relationship as going onto a plane with a new co-pilot...both of us are new ...and it is going to a one way doom trip if both parties don know what they are getting themselves into...and of cos they must have the motivation to keep flying...going thru the storms of life..sometimes the co-pilot might feel she/he wants to land the plane and the relationship breaks down....of cos marriage is more of flying into a region without airport..to land= to crash the plane....but of cos the promise of having a great journey with someone u love will be the reward....
just like the song that is playing....Forever love...i hope there will be someone out there whom i can co-pilot our plane together....but maybe the time have not come...eversince the last crash i am still on the journey of recovery...furthermore, the element of the ability to trust have not been restored.......i know there is alot fo speculations but none of it is true..as of now..and i don think it will be....
maybe...a little while more...
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